Both of you are traditionalists and there are many similarities in what you value. You each put faith in the past and trust what has worked for many generations before you. The two of you share an appreciation for the rules and feel comforted, rather than restricted, by institutions and traditions. You are likely to feel a strong connection with this person based on your fundamental similarities in values and approaches.
At heart, you are both deeply practical and logical people. You have a strong sense of duty, and will both play your parts as morally upstanding and socially responsible members of your communities. You both embrace responsibility, and seeing your commitments through to completion is an ethical obligation for both of you. It is unlikely that you would carelessly let the other person down.
You have somewhat different values when it comes to relationships. You tend to be intensely interested in people and are eager to serve them in practical ways. You are compassionate and emotionally engaged, and you seek harmony in your relationships. You prioritize closeness and connection and tend to over-worry if you are not getting the intimacy you desire.
Your counterpart tends to be more emotionally distant, and may hurt you with their straightforward and sometimes tactless words. You tend to take criticism personally and may get overly emotional and defensive in the face of negative feedback. In their defense, your counterpart may not understand your desire for intimacy and may not realize they are being insensitive. To smooth the waters, you may have to put your feelings aside and approach the situation objectively, which is your counterpart’s preferred way of navigating the world.
Fundamentally, you tend to show affection much more naturally than your partner. While you may initially be attracted to your counterpart’s objective and tough-minded approach, there’s a chance that you will feel unfulfilled if they show too much of it at the expense of intimacy. On the flip side, your partner may find you over-emotional and complicated, though they will appreciate your tender heart.
There’s an opportunity here to introduce one another to new ways of thinking. You both excel in sticking to values that are important to you, but you can help your counterpart understand the emotional consequences of their behavior, while they can help you lead with the head before the heart. The challenge for you is to not get too annoyed if your partner is not as emotionally supportive as you would like as they calmly fulfill their duties.